YES! I CHANGED HIM!
My eldest sister asked,"How did you changed him?"
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I replied,"I told him off. If he wants to continue to be the typical egoistic male chauvinist Malay-Muslim dictator, he can continues BUT with other women, NOT WITH ME! Lets not waste my time, your time & everyone else's time with stupid games of who dominates who..when the fact is WOMAN is the real boss in all relationships..You don't like what I just said, you can leave now. I can always find someone else who LISTEN to me..He felt like I have challenged him so, he accepted the challenge. He said that he cannot be the best overnight but in a long run, he will be the best for me..I told him to prove it to me..I don't ask for a diamond ring or a bungalow from men, just some simple things - My man MUST know where he stands in my community, be grateful always & LISTEN TO ME! Never ever think women know NOTHING when most of the times, MEN were the BRAINLESS one..So, he changed slowly..25 years later, he is my Prince Charming who gets what he dreamt out of a female partner.."..
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My eldest sister laughed aloud and said,"My sister is so evil!"..
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I replied,"I am not evil..I am just sick and tired being treated like I owe my man my life..I have to listen to him but when he made mistakes, I have to amend for him as if I am his mother but at the end of the day, he betrayed me either with my best friend or my own sister. Wasted my time..Nowadays I am the Big boss..cannot take it, shoooo..go away..I don't need a man who is NATO (No Action Talk Only)..who just need to dominate women to get his way..🖕🖕🖕..Vaviii!..Be grateful I don't treat them the way they treated me..Pray hard I don't..if not, they will know how high the sky is..🤣🤣🤣"