LAST NIGHT AT DINNER


He ate only the rice..Not the fish!😳😳😳

My mom commented,"Maybe he is angry bcoz you give me rice and dishes first before him..He is the head of the family.."..😔😔😔

I replied,"You both are Muslims..in Islamic law from what I know - A child needs to respect his/her mother 3 times before respecting the father, right? The ratio is 3:1.

An unmarried daughter's heaven is under her mother's feets and will only ceased upon her getting married which will be transferred to under her husband's feets OR ceased upon her mother's death..which then transfer to her father, right? So, I did nothing wrong when I give your rice and dishes first..At least I am still respecting my Muslim parents' religion - Islam..Be grateful about it!


He who protests out of jealousy shall have none of my attention, empathy and sympathy..

Refusing to eat is nothing new to me..He did refused to eat the foods my eldest brother and family bought (during Ramadhan 2019) just bcoz my mom divided the fried rice (huge portion) into two..his and hers..He did it again today..What to do..so, let him be..

Harlem, I apologise for my father's bad behaviour and attitude..Thank you for PAYING for the fish to be cooked in curry..God bless you!

Head of the family? Who? To me, the head of the family is the one who keeps this household sufficient and together..not hold the post but does nothing..I don't tolerate such character.."..😏😏😏

Harlem commented,"I have no comment about this..It's ok..No need to apologise"..😁😁😁

No one knows how tough to deal with old parents' behaviour especially like my father..until they have similar parents' behaviours and attitudes as mine.

Not easy to be caregiver to be living with old parents..which at times I do feel like strangling or stabbing them to death..due to stress..😤😤😤

I am not rude..insolent..but this is the fact in life which I am living in..which not all humans UNDERSTAND!🙄🙄🙄

Visiting once a blue moon..giving money lots of money monthly..CANNOT be considered as caregiving for the parents..as you do not live with them to deal with their behaviours and attitudes on daily basis..so, DON'T TELL ME WHAT TO DO!🖕🖕🖕

#MaluAkuTakdeOrangKesah..kan..kan..kan..
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