SHE NOT STOPPING

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WA Message to my eldest sister
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When I am NOT GOOD ENOUGH for her..
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Since young I was told that I will not be GOOD ENOUGH for anyone in this world..I will always be the slow and dumb one..I will NEVER be successful in life..That's why I was taught to do the housework i.e. cooking, washing, ironing, cleaning..and learn to recite the Holy Koran bcoz she said who knows there's a man who can looks at me based on my domestic skills & religious faith instead..as I will NEVER make any man proud based on my looks & my rotten luck! 😔😔😔
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However when I decided to be a rebellious 21yo adult..went on rendeavour, she was unhappy..When many men called me up for a date, she was unhappy..even called me "WHORE"..but did I care abt all that? No! I proved to her that there are men for me..NOT to show-off or boast..but just to prove her wrong..and again, she was unhappy..
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When SD stick to me since March 1992 until now..despite all odds, she was unhappy..She even asked SD directly WHAT HE SEES IN ME?🤦🤦🤦
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SD responded,"I never met or know any girl whom each time I look at her, I feel calm inside eventhough earlier I was pissed with something..But your daughter did. She might not be the most beautiful but she have that something making me want to calm down, listen to her and just love her more.."..🤦🤦🤦🤣🤣🤣..and she really could not believe what she heard! She was unhappy! Her comment,"You are crazy! Just like her"..
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Nowadays, she just making my life in disaster with her unbelievable behaviours..6 months unemployment really drove me up the wall..Many times of screaming out loud..Now as I returned to workforce again, my life is slowly calming down..but during the weekends, she will always try her best to piss me off..but nowadays I just go to my room..I communicate lesser to her nowadays to prevent any screaming scene..as I am sick & tired of such kinda moment.
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I would always regretted not going to Ireland to work in 2001, each time the dispute arised..if only I went, I will not be in this kind of living situation..domestic life!🙄🙄🙄
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Sometimes I could not help myself from wondering when will my parents die..so that my sufferings will end!..😔😔😔

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