REVIEW ON VIDEO!


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LAST WEEK..
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I saw a video online..Someone commenting about a Muslimah who added and tagged her on an online photo album where all the pictures are of that Muslimah's "FREE-HAIR" moments..whereas in public, the Muslimah still wearing headscarf or hijab.
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Why is there a need to show others what happened to your hair online..in a specific photo album when you are still wearing hijab in public? For what purposes?
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MY COMMENT AS EX-MUSLIM WHO WORE HIJAB
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I cannot answer on behalf of that Muslimah..I can only assume that Muslimah forgets whatever uploaded online, stay online. All I can do here is to write down my past experience as an EX-Muslim who wore hijab in order to relate to what that Muslimah has done.
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WHY DO MUSLIM WOMEN WEAR HIJAB?
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1. It is COMPULSORY for any Muslim women to wear hijab in Islamic rules.

2. Undeniably, some Muslim women wear hijab after been stressed and pressurised by other Muslims to cover up and wear hijab. So, some Muslim women wear hijab just to stop other Muslims to keep on preaching like broken radio.

3. Some Muslim women really want to follow and practice Islam as their daily basic needs in life besides showing their sincerity in their faith and loyalty towards ALLAH (God)..to be a better and always grateful kinda humans..
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I, myself have experienced both scenarios in the past. Think about it, I feel sad that I did things just to shut others up..indirectly to please others. Why I did so?😔😔😔
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WHY IS THERE A NEED TO SNAP PICTURES WITHOUT HIJAB (FREE-HAIR), UPLOADED ONLINE AND SHARE WITH OTHERS?
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Many non-Muslim assumed that Muslim women covered their head bcoz their hair is UGLY. Some even have the thought that those Muslim women are actually BALD..either their hair dropped due to illnesses or they are just BALDY since birth.😲😲😲..#SoMeanGirls
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Indirectly such assumptions hurt the feelings..Again I cannot say for others but it did hurts my feelings once upon a time ago..while I wore hijab. Once a Muslim man accused me for purposely making myself ugly by wearing hijab. It was a struggle for me back then to defend the fact that I have hair, my hair is beautiful and I AM NOT MAKING MYSELF UGLY ON PURPOSE!😤😤😤
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Worst feeling when an old man (around my grandfather's age) called me "Aunty"..😲😲😲..Waaaaaah, WHAT AN INSULT! I was hurt deeply immediately but I managed to control my frustration as I looked upon him as a SENIOR citizen.🤬🤬🤬..When I asked others' opinions, they couldn't deny that I looked 10-15 years older than my actual age each time I wore hijab. Some commented that I look far much better without hijab..🙄🙄🙄
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Many times I was frustrated with the reason WHY Muslim women need to wear hijab as per in Islamic rules..As if all men gonna fall in love, crazy and lust over me if I do not wear hijab. Dream on! I know that I am NOT DROP-DEAD GORGEOUS! Gimme a break. Few times I did cried in my bedroom due to this struggle. It was not easy wearing hijab eventhough one feels safer in hijab!
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Fuuuuh! Those bad experiences of wearing hijab had passed, at last! I am more relieved nowadays. I am NOT in this world to instigate other Muslimah to wear or not to wear hijab..especially now I am no longer a Muslim. To me, what's making you happy, wear it..what's making you down, throw it away! Life is too short to be unhappy. Never follow the crowd as when the crowd disperse, you are then lost of direction. Be on your own. Your style, own it with great pride!💋💋💋
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Personally to me, all women are the same WORLDWIDE..whether they are Muslim or non-Muslim..All women want to look beautiful especially in front of their beloved ones..All women need attentions especially from the men (some from other women)! Either women show it in public or supressed it deep inside their hearts, WOMEN LOVE BEAUTY AND ATTENTIONS..PERIOD!
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That is why..maybe why that Muslimah has an online photo album for her snapshots without hijab..only for special people in her life..without realising that what's shown to women are reviewed by their men/husbands too..Don't be shocked! It is a FACT. That's the REALITY of cyberspace! Sharing is caring UNLESS sharing husband, that's so uncaring!😁😁😁
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Lastly to my opinion for the abovementioned, if Muslim women really want to follow and practice Islamic rules closely to heart..wearing hijab, covered your entire whole body..DO NOT make any online photo album to upload your FREE-HAIR snapshots..just upload to your portable hard-drive (which has the potential to be lost and found by others😖😖😖)..the best, NO NEED to capture your picture without hijab at all..let that special man in your life figure it out himself and surprise him once LEGALLY MARRIED! In the meantime, RSVP only for your MUSLIM HUSBAND!♥️♥️♥️
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Case closed! #ShakingMyLegsHappily
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P/S:
I always surprise my man with my most intimidating attitudes..He already knows the colour of my hair..what my hairstyle..nothing new!😂😂😂

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