LIFE EXPERIENCE : 2010 - 2014
After upon returning from Bali in August 2010, jobhunting started. Not easy to search for job when I have no computer.
Earlier at beginning of the jobhunt, I did borrowed a former colleague's laptop but due to some misunderstandings, she demanded her laptop back IMMEDIATELY. Like SERIOUSLY?!! Yes! She even asked her lil brother to retrieve the laptop from me..Haiiiizzz! So, I returned the laptop to her lil brother at my doorstep one morning. Personally, I did regretted borrowing the laptop in the first place, if only I knew this was coming! But I told myself that I shall not be despair. Lesson learnt - DO NOT RELY ON HUMANS FULLY!
Lost! I did not know how to search for job..went to the Community Centre but the computer club was terminated/closed. REASON: Not making money! I was like "Huh?! Ain't Community Centre under the government who should help the citizens?"..I just returned home brokenhearted.
Last resort is to ask my mom for loan..just to buy a laptop..So first time in my life eversince I started working, I borrowed my mom's money. My jobhunting continues. After awhile, I found a job as Debt Recovery Officer. By right I was answering to an advertisement for the position of Secretary but when I attended the job interview, the title of the position just CHANGED on the spot. Haiiiizzz..Due to my desperation to have a job and earn a living, heck care about the job title! Money matters the most.
2011 - 2013
Working life hectic as usually. Pathetic when credit card debtors as if "begging" me not to auction their belongings which been repossessed. Sad though but what more can I do..I was just doing my job. Thru' this job I learnt alot about the "misfortune" having debt due to credit card. Still, credit card is a card of luxury..like gambling..turn the wrong way, it kills the owner. Via this job too I discovered my closed related owing the bank due to credit card..haiiiizzz! Seen living such luxurious lifestyle but banks were chasing them for payments!
Personal life - nothing much changed! Yes! Still to and fro rebounding with my British ex-bf despite deep in my heart I knew this will not last long..someday I will let it go for sure..which came true by end of 2013! I, myself let go of the rebound stage..Drained mentally..Sick and tired. I told myself that if I do not get married by age of 39, I shall declared my SPINSTERHOOD at 40.
Family life - In 2012, my lil sister gave birth to a tiny baby..after 12 years..Yes! Mamy teased her for being pregnant at MATURED age. Best part when she told me that she planned for a C-section..which I responded she's crazy when she is fit enough for normal birth..all bcoz the influence of her so-called buddies who had C-section..What was she thinking? I just don't know why needs to follow others..just bcoz those people have C-section, you need to have one too..just to prove your sisterhood or sorority to those girlfriends? STUPID! Of coz she was furious with my answer but I DO NOT CARE! Thanks God! She gave birth in the ambulance while on the way to the hospital. NO C-Section whatsoever! Then when my mom (as always) volunteered to care for the baby, she was at first reluctant..even asked my mom,"Will she (referring to me) be angry with this arrangement?"..My mom laughed and replied,"She won't be angry with this lil bundle of joy..She just angry with you being stupid. You and your C-section ideas!"..Ben is that baby name..My lil sister's NO. 4!
2014
I found out that my 1st boss was badmouthing me when other firm called up for references about me. Screw him! Several staff from the same department told me & they advised me NOT to add his name as REFEREES as he had commented badly about me! Sad! I never expected this to be coming. Just bcoz I wanted to explore and secure a job in secretarial, people dare to hurt me deeply. Haiiiiizzz. Still, God is great. My prosperities in God's will, NOT human! I found a job as Legal Secretary..my dream job position! The interviewer did called the firm but unfortunately both bosses not in office..The lady boss on MC..That male boss was away..Thanks God for that! As they need a Legal Secretary urgently, they just hired me! My salary was few hundreds more than existing salary..Thanks God for the blessings!
I left the previous Debt Recovery department for Litigation department. Yeeeaaaay! New job, new workplace, new bosses and new colleagues..A few colleagues just cocked up bossy while most of them were co-operative and fun as fuck! Both my two bosses - a male and female were joyful to work with as they did not bother me alot as long as all job assigned to me were done before the end of the day which of coz I did it accordingly..What more did I want, right? I was a Legal Secretary at last..my dream came true!
I enrolled myself in a Legal Studies. I applied for my own HDB flat. I declared my SPINSTERHOOD on my 40th birthday and have no dpubt about it. I was clear and precise about what I want in life personally. Yes! I though I need a marriage, a husband and children like TYPICAL Asian women but I was wrong! Sometimes I need to accept the fact and reality that I will NOT have a marriage, a husband and children in life on earth..but hey! that's not the end of life. I can still be happy and enjoy life without all that..Happiness is inside me..not in a marriage via a husband and children. So, chill!
MY EXPERIENCE IN LIFE
1. No one will help me..not even God, if I do not help myself!
2. Never rely on other humans as not all sincerely willing to help you..FUCK THEM!
3. Sometimes I need to lower my ego and pride just to ask for help financially.
4. Be patient. Good things coming my way.
5. I did not get what I want bcoz I am getting what's best suited me!
Earlier at beginning of the jobhunt, I did borrowed a former colleague's laptop but due to some misunderstandings, she demanded her laptop back IMMEDIATELY. Like SERIOUSLY?!! Yes! She even asked her lil brother to retrieve the laptop from me..Haiiiizzz! So, I returned the laptop to her lil brother at my doorstep one morning. Personally, I did regretted borrowing the laptop in the first place, if only I knew this was coming! But I told myself that I shall not be despair. Lesson learnt - DO NOT RELY ON HUMANS FULLY!
Lost! I did not know how to search for job..went to the Community Centre but the computer club was terminated/closed. REASON: Not making money! I was like "Huh?! Ain't Community Centre under the government who should help the citizens?"..I just returned home brokenhearted.
Last resort is to ask my mom for loan..just to buy a laptop..So first time in my life eversince I started working, I borrowed my mom's money. My jobhunting continues. After awhile, I found a job as Debt Recovery Officer. By right I was answering to an advertisement for the position of Secretary but when I attended the job interview, the title of the position just CHANGED on the spot. Haiiiizzz..Due to my desperation to have a job and earn a living, heck care about the job title! Money matters the most.
2011 - 2013
Working life hectic as usually. Pathetic when credit card debtors as if "begging" me not to auction their belongings which been repossessed. Sad though but what more can I do..I was just doing my job. Thru' this job I learnt alot about the "misfortune" having debt due to credit card. Still, credit card is a card of luxury..like gambling..turn the wrong way, it kills the owner. Via this job too I discovered my closed related owing the bank due to credit card..haiiiizzz! Seen living such luxurious lifestyle but banks were chasing them for payments!
Personal life - nothing much changed! Yes! Still to and fro rebounding with my British ex-bf despite deep in my heart I knew this will not last long..someday I will let it go for sure..which came true by end of 2013! I, myself let go of the rebound stage..Drained mentally..Sick and tired. I told myself that if I do not get married by age of 39, I shall declared my SPINSTERHOOD at 40.
Family life - In 2012, my lil sister gave birth to a tiny baby..after 12 years..Yes! Mamy teased her for being pregnant at MATURED age. Best part when she told me that she planned for a C-section..which I responded she's crazy when she is fit enough for normal birth..all bcoz the influence of her so-called buddies who had C-section..What was she thinking? I just don't know why needs to follow others..just bcoz those people have C-section, you need to have one too..just to prove your sisterhood or sorority to those girlfriends? STUPID! Of coz she was furious with my answer but I DO NOT CARE! Thanks God! She gave birth in the ambulance while on the way to the hospital. NO C-Section whatsoever! Then when my mom (as always) volunteered to care for the baby, she was at first reluctant..even asked my mom,"Will she (referring to me) be angry with this arrangement?"..My mom laughed and replied,"She won't be angry with this lil bundle of joy..She just angry with you being stupid. You and your C-section ideas!"..Ben is that baby name..My lil sister's NO. 4!
2014
I found out that my 1st boss was badmouthing me when other firm called up for references about me. Screw him! Several staff from the same department told me & they advised me NOT to add his name as REFEREES as he had commented badly about me! Sad! I never expected this to be coming. Just bcoz I wanted to explore and secure a job in secretarial, people dare to hurt me deeply. Haiiiiizzz. Still, God is great. My prosperities in God's will, NOT human! I found a job as Legal Secretary..my dream job position! The interviewer did called the firm but unfortunately both bosses not in office..The lady boss on MC..That male boss was away..Thanks God for that! As they need a Legal Secretary urgently, they just hired me! My salary was few hundreds more than existing salary..Thanks God for the blessings!
I left the previous Debt Recovery department for Litigation department. Yeeeaaaay! New job, new workplace, new bosses and new colleagues..A few colleagues just cocked up bossy while most of them were co-operative and fun as fuck! Both my two bosses - a male and female were joyful to work with as they did not bother me alot as long as all job assigned to me were done before the end of the day which of coz I did it accordingly..What more did I want, right? I was a Legal Secretary at last..my dream came true!
I enrolled myself in a Legal Studies. I applied for my own HDB flat. I declared my SPINSTERHOOD on my 40th birthday and have no dpubt about it. I was clear and precise about what I want in life personally. Yes! I though I need a marriage, a husband and children like TYPICAL Asian women but I was wrong! Sometimes I need to accept the fact and reality that I will NOT have a marriage, a husband and children in life on earth..but hey! that's not the end of life. I can still be happy and enjoy life without all that..Happiness is inside me..not in a marriage via a husband and children. So, chill!
MY EXPERIENCE IN LIFE
1. No one will help me..not even God, if I do not help myself!
2. Never rely on other humans as not all sincerely willing to help you..FUCK THEM!
3. Sometimes I need to lower my ego and pride just to ask for help financially.
4. Be patient. Good things coming my way.
5. I did not get what I want bcoz I am getting what's best suited me!
