WITH THIS RING, I WED...???


With this ring, I wed...???

I asked my mom why she rejected two marriage proposals for me in the past. Each time someone asking me, my mom seemed hesitate to accept that someone who is willing to marry me. WHY? WHY? WHYYYYYY? Now I am a SPINSTER!

My mom told me that when I was born, the wise man in her Indonesian community around us told my mom,"Your daughter will grow up to be a woman who is EGOISTIC, BOSSY, DOMINEERING, TOUGH COOKIE, DEFIANT, REVENGEFUL and STUBBORN! Her quietness will make others bully her often..might it be amongst her siblings, relatives, friends and perfect strangers. When that happened, she will be REVENGEFUL, FIERCE and HATEFUL towards those bullies. In her love relationship, she will have SEVEN marriages which each of them will not last due to her DEFIANT attitude. Pray hard that the 7th husband can handle her long enough. She will NEVER gives in to anyone including her parents. Her charm is her loving heart, generosity and happy-go-lucky characters. Her negativities are that she is not easy to handle, not just anyone's cup of tea as she needs someone more powerful than her to nail her down on earth softly..do it aggressively, she will retaliate fiercely! Her weaknesses are others' patience towards her. She hates seeing others' weaknesses especially weak women..she got impatient with them!"..

I laughed after hearing it. I am not bother about my characters, attitudes and behaviours..but..Weeeey! Having SEVEN husbands like the late Elizabeth Taylor who happens to be one of my IDOLS...that's COOL! Why on earth my mom kept this for looooong time? I would marry that Amran, Hashim, Nash, Narrick, Mikey, Xavier and Crispin. And Harlem shall be the 8th husband! WOW! Living in heaven indeed!

My mom's reaction? She was not happy. She said,"That's why I cannot let you out of my sight. I doubt can let you marry anyone bcoz men will leave you one by one..If you have no children, maybe it is okey..but it you have children, I pity the children..Compared you and your lil sister, many asked for you in the past but I gave them all sort if excuses to avoid too many divorces in your life and also, to save others' son from you!"..

Well, now it is no use..as I have made my decision not to get married to any man ever..I can be the mistress, girlfriend BUT not the wife..I dislike the fact that I am tied down with a man forever really annoys me..Hehehe..However if I did have seven husbands, indeed I would write a book about it..A PLAIN JANE MARRIED TO SEVEN MEN..Vava Voooom..Headline! Tabloid! 🤣🤣🤣

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